10 Tips to Encourage Communication at Home for Children with Autism and Learning Differences

Communication is key!

At Colorado Behavior and Learning Group, we believe that every child deserves the tools to express themselves, connect with others, and thrive—both in therapy and at home. For children with learning differences, including autism, building communication skills is a journey that requires consistency, support, and creativity. As part of our holistic approach to behavioral therapy, we support families by empowering them with strategies they can implement in their everyday routines.

Here are 10 practical tips you can use at home to encourage communication and connection with your child:

1.) Follow Their Lead

Let your child choose the activity or toy, then join in. This creates natural opportunities for communication and reduces pressure.

2.) Use Simple, Clear Language

Speak in short, direct phrases—especially if your child is still developing language. For example, say 'Time to eat' instead of 'Would you like to have lunch now?'

3.) Incorporate Visual Supports

Use tools like visual schedules, choice boards, or picture cards to help them understand routines and express preferences without frustration.

4.) Turn Conversations Into Play

Use songs, fingerplays, and games to create a relaxed, fun atmosphere that naturally encourages back-and-forth communication.

5.) Pause to Give Time

After asking a question or giving a prompt, wait at least 5–10 seconds. Children with processing delays may need extra time to respond.

6.) Model Communication (Without Demanding It)

Narrate your actions and describe what’s happening around you. This builds vocabulary and shows your child how language is used.

7.) Celebrate All Attempts

Whether it’s a gesture, word, or sound—praise every effort your child makes to communicate. Reinforcement builds confidence.

8.) Read Together Daily

Books with repetitive text and interactive elements are great for prompting communication. Pause and let your child fill in words or point to images.

9.) Use Interests to Spark Interaction

If your child loves dinosaurs, trucks, or animals, use those themes to start conversations and ask engaging questions.

10.) Stay Patient & Keep It Positive

Progress takes time. Maintaining a calm, encouraging environment is key to helping your child feel safe and motivated to communicate.

At CBLG, we understand that communication is at the heart of meaningful relationships. Our holistic approach to behavior therapy includes not only in-clinic strategies but also ongoing support for families at home, at school, and in the community. Whether it's through individualized ABA therapy, caregiver training, or integrated services like transportation and housing, our team is here to make sure no child falls through the cracks.

If you're looking for a partner who understands the whole picture, CBLG is here to help your child build communication—and confidence—every step of the way.